Have you ever come across INFJ Memes that describe you completely within an image along with few words? Here, we’re going to explore the forty best INFJ Memes that will steal your heart, make you laugh, and might evoke your nostalgia as well.

INFJ Memes That Every INFJ Should Read:

INFJs have Introverted Intuition (Ni) as their dominant cognitive function. Due to this, INFJs tend to stay immersed in the thoughts of their world, often trying to contemplate the hidden meaning behind everything they come across. It leads to the INFJ losing themselves in the present moment and coming across as a person who is unwilling to participate in social interactions. However, INFJs don’t intend to project such an image of themselves around others. Instead, they look forward to becoming friends with everyone and understand every individual deeply.

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INFJs are deep thinkers, and they are naturally tuned to understand the ulterior motives behind people’s actions and behaviors. A healthy INFJ can easily spot the underlying emotions just by looking at someone’s eyes. But, other personality types are not adept at figuring out the same as what an INFJ does. And, this results in others doubting the INFJ of their abilities to look beyond the obvious.

It’s not uncommon for INFJs to have premonitions of an unpleasant event where someone will disappoint them and piss them off. Well, INFJs are complex beings, and their strong intuition plays a significant role in this inexplicable behavior.

It’s so difficult for an INFJ to open up and be vulnerable with their feelings and ask for help from others. INFJs prefer to sort their problems independently without bothering someone to help them out as their good parent Fe (Extraverted Feeling) doesn’t want to make others uncomfortable.

As this meme conveys the accurate picture, INFJs find it extremely difficult to prioritize their needs and wants over others. Their good parent Fe (Extraverted Feeling) intends to ensure external harmony. INFJs find it naturally difficult to set personal boundaries, which finally leads them to overwork themselves for someone they repent later.

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INFJs are naturally attuned to the emotions and feelings of others around them. They are curious to know what others are feeling, especially those close to them, and they never leave a stone unturned in making sure that their closed ones are fully taken care of. But others don’t respond in the same way as the INFJ does to them.

If you’re an INFJ, you can closely relate to it. Many people are completely oblivious of the INFJ’s observations about them.

INFJs are perfectionists and they want to ensure that they get the desired outcomes for every effort that they deliberately put into anything. Also, INFJs have inferior Extraverted Sensing (Se), due to which it takes more time for them to verify the sensing details, such as what they have written in a mail in the above meme. It’s common for INFJs to double-check whatever actions they perform.

INFJs are hopeless romantics, and they readily project the image of their perfect soulmate onto someone similar to them in one or different ways. Especially INFJs like to listen to music that soothes their soul and provides them a deeper meaning in their lives. When INFJs can find someone who resembles their specific tastes, they get excited to dream about various positive possibilities with them.

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The ultimate golden pair on earth among all personality types is the INFJ-ENFP. Both personality types have cognitive functions which are exactly opposite to each other in the same priority, due to which they complement each other the most. There are other golden pairs, but this golden pair is considered the “Engine of Hope,” according to C.S Joseph, a true expert and a pioneer in the study of MBTI personality types.

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If you’re an INFJ, you can relate to it very quickly. INFJ is not as spontaneous as the ESTPs or the ESFPs, since they have inferior Extraverted Sensing (Se) in their cognitive function stack. It is why it takes some time for an INFJ to process an argument and reply to it spontaneously. At the same time, INFJs look for the best solution and always try to be wise in their arguments, due to which they find it challenging to come up with the perfect counter-arguments at the given moment. Afterward, INFJs tend to simulate the same situation in their mind and ponder if they could have replied something better and befitting to justify their stance.

It’s not easy for anyone to judge an INFJ and offer their conclusions about them right away, as some may consider themselves to be qualified enough to do that. INFJs are private and reserved individuals. People often mistake them by judging them based on their looks and outward appearance. While INFJs are versatile, it’s not only possible for anyone to know an INFJ accurately until you’re close to them.

Others won’t understand why the INFJ is always saying sorry for every single thing. It’s so common for an INFJ to say Sorry now and then, as INFJs don’t want to offend anyone for any reasons whatsoever.

INFJs have a knack for looking in their external world and solve people’s problems. It comes naturally to them because of their Good Parent Fe (Extraverted Feeling) coupled with their Hero Ni (Introverted Intuition), which helps them find the root cause of a problem and find a long-term solution. But, it becomes challenging for an INFJ to do that when focusing on their problems. They have Critic Fi (Introverted Feeling), which doesn’t allow the INFJ to consider their feelings into account and solve their own problems.

If you’re an INFJ, hopefully, you’ve been there. It’s difficult for an INFJ to share their thoughts genuinely in front of everyone and get validated. Well, other personality types also face it to an extent, but INFJs are the ones who face the most, along with INTJs. The matured healthy INFJs know that most people won’t match up to the depth of their thoughts, and hence they will not consider other’s weird reactions to their hearts. This adaptation comes with time and practice, but at some point in an INFJ’s life, they have to face this scenario as portrayed in the meme.

It shows the reality of an INFJ. Though balance plays an essential role in the life of every human being, INFJs find it challenging to achieve it. They choose any one of the two extremes. Either they choose to live in a dark state of mind looking into the depth of human miseries and finding solutions to them, or they decide to be overly optimistic, becoming unaware of the saddening reality that one can’t ignore.

Others always ask INFJs – Are you a quiet person?, Don’t you like to interact with others? And the answer is true, as mentioned in the meme. It’s just difficult for others to change their perspective and look into the rare individuality of the INFJ personality type.


INFJs prioritize their alone time more than anything. INFJs love planning a lot, and when they come across anything unexpected, it sends them into a spiral of overthinking. Instead of facing it upfront, INFJs prefer to know and learn about it in advance to plan and prepare themselves for the worst possibilities imaginable to them.

INFJs crave deep, emotionally intense connections. When they come across an emotionally receptive and reciprocating person, it melts the INFJ’s heart. Once someone wins an INFJ’s trust, INFJs start pouring their heart out to them, even if it’s the first meeting with them.

It’s a loop that I guess all INFJs would be aware of since their childhood days. The problem is that people expect us to be just like the familiar personality types out there. Still, even if we try to impersonate what they expect of us, we can’t let go of our natural quirks, and a lot of times, people consider the INFJ to be weird and uncommon, which they have ever seen. The INFJ, who craves to be understood by others, now feels disappointed for letting out their true selves.

Most INFJs spend the whole of their lives criticizing themselves for not being good enough. It happens because INFJs have a dream image of themselves that is devoid of imperfections that they want to manifest into reality. But perfection comes with practice, even though there’s no objective definition of being perfect. Unless INFJs take deliberate action on what they want to see in their lives, it’s never going to happen automatically. Perfectionism indeed prevents INFJs from living their lives fully.

This kind of response comes naturally to an INFJ. They are highly empathic individuals, and they genuinely care about the well-being of others. Other personality types may not bother to such an extent as to what an INFJ would do.

INFJs don’t like going to social events frequently, as it robs them of their energy. It happens because of their inferior cognitive function, Extraverted Sensing (Se), as it takes more conscious efforts to absorb sensing information in real-time, especially in crowded places. Staying present in the moment at social events becomes physically exhausting for an INFJ. That is why an INFJ gets a headache thinking about going to a social event in advance.

ROFL! This is absolutely true. Do you agree with this? Let me know in the comments.

INFJs do have deep insights about situations where they have prior experience and knowledge about it. While offering their future-based intuitive advice, they expect the other person to understand the meaning and logic behind their statements. It is because INFJs don’t want to prove whatever they ever said is always correct. They, too, want to learn and seek the absolute truth and rectify themselves if found incorrect. Due to this, INFJs want others to do their due diligence before making decisions purely based on the INFJ’s findings.

It’s very common for an INFJ to get misunderstood by others, especially when they are trying not to be people-pleasers and staying true to themselves.

LOL! INFJs do have an affinity towards those suffering from mental issues only to solve it for them, to see them functioning happily like before. It gives enough gratification for INFJs as they’re able to use their gifts to help others in need and can make a positive impact in the world, even if it’s on a micro-level.

Yeah! INFJs don’t like to argue just for the sake of winning an argument or proving themselves superior over others. Well, there are enough people in the world who want to impact the world (irrespective of good or bad), trying to force their superiority over others and also by deliberately hurting other’s feelings and sentiments. When such a person enters into a circle led by an INFJ, they receive such a kind of response.

It is so true! Even though INFJs are the ones who get truly blissed out for getting an opportunity to better the world, INFJs being the reserved private individuals, find it difficult to go out and engage with the world.

The picture itself describes the pain thresholds for INFJ and other personality types(ESFP in this meme). INFJs care a lot about others and always put other’s well-being above theirs. Well, I don’t suggest INFJs should do it even though it’s easier for them to self-sacrifice themselves because if someone is deliberately unwilling to see your pain, they will never be willing to see it in the future as well.

INFJs can use their emotions as well as their thinking to make decisions for themselves. The INFJ’s 2nd cognitive function(Auxiliary function) is Extraverted Feeling (Fe) which takes into account the emotional aspects. And the 3rd cognitive function (Tertiary function) takes into account the thinking and logical elements. Though INFJs find it easy to view a specific situation from an emotional and rational standpoint, it becomes challenging to make a decision, mainly when either side affects external harmony.

INFJs are feelers, and they can feel intense emotions that are out of the scope for some other personality types. INFJs are god-gifted in this way, but at the same time, this gift can also become a curse to them when they become overly sensitive to a specific topic, and small triggers start to overwhelm them the most.

It becomes difficult for an INFJ to make sense of the reality, especially in places led by the commotion. INFJs feel exhausted, and their energy gets depleted at a rapid rate when they expose themselves to noisy outdoor situations like this. The INFJs come back to their homes to recharge their internal batteries, where they draw their energy sitting in a quiet, serene setting, enjoying in isolation with their pets and themselves.

Yes, it’s true! I have been there a couple of times. Others won’t understand the way how deeply an INFJ does. And, they start judging the INFJ to be a weird person throwing strange looks at them. Well, it’s not easy for an INFJ to get rid of their people-pleasing abilities all of a sudden, and subsequently, they try to cover up the scene saying, “It was a joke,” whereas, in reality, the INFJ expected to feel understood by them.

INFJs are versatile and have N no of talents. It’s become difficult for an INFJ to choose which career they want to pursue in the future. And it takes a lot of time to narrow down their career choices finally. Yet, it is difficult to comprehend and is beyond the natural scope of many other personality types, who will mistake the INFJ, thinking the INFJ might be deliberately bragging about themselves.

I guess INFJs will vibe along this meme. INFJs have a rich internal world of their own and they feel naturally at peace within themselves. INFJs won’t mind having a dynamic where no one is bound to respond to messages as quick as they receive. Also, INFJs hate surface level discussions and they love to communicate directly from their heart feeling every word of their message. Thus, INFJs prefer irregularity instead of insincerity.

This meme is self-descriptive, and I hope you can relate to it closely. It happens because INFJs love to experience highly intense emotions with their life partners. And since all mostly misunderstand them, when their intuition perceives a slight possibility, the INFJs project the image of their perfect dream partners onto them.

This is the bitter reality and INFJs go through it oftentimes.

Let me know in comments if you have faced similar scenarios in your childhood.

It is the reason why INFJs are the RAREST of all personality types. As previously mentioned, INFJs have Introverted Thinking (Ti) as their Tertiary cognitive function and Extraverted Feeling (Fe) as their auxiliary cognitive function. They can taste both the world of being a thinker as well as a Feeler.

Other personality types also have similar cognitive functions, but the INFJ personality type has the edge of having Introverted Intuition (Ni) as their dominant function. Being a Ni Hero, INFJs can synthesize information from various angles and can find meaning in it. Thus, INFJs can verify their findings both from ‘Feelers’ and ‘Thinkers’ perspectives using the Ni-Fe combination and Ni-Ti combination, respectively.

What are your reactions?

Did you resonate with these memes? Feel free to share your thoughts and insights in the comments. I would love to read them.

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Anand Choudhury
Anand Choudhury

Author of 'The Unstoppable INFJ' (Available on Amazon), Jungian Analyst, a musical artist, and an INFJ dreamer set on a mission to help you live a life of meaning and purpose by finding your true self.

    26 replies to "The Best 40 INFJ Memes Every INFJ Can Relate"

    • Ling

      lol these infj memes I can relate to so much haha. The pink blob that comes out first time and then its protective barrier becomes even thicker the next time when it goes back in… Yep, never again. 🙈

      Love the rbf – I was told I have a rbf many times but it’s not how I am on the inside.

      Yes, infj meme on the childhood is so true. That literally brought back my childhood memories of feeling left out and misunderstood.

      The charged battery at home is another funny infj meme. Spot on!

      Gosh, just when I think I’ve become stronger and further away from the infj traits, I can’t deny that these memes mostly represent exactly how I feel all the time!!

      I love your post and you nailed your explanations! Really enjoyed it, Anand!

      I look forward to seeing more posts about the infj from you!

      • Anand Choudhury

        Hey Ling! I am super glad to know that you enjoyed reading these memes. Thank you so much for visiting my blog, reading through the post, and dropping in your lovely message. I deeply appreciate it.

    • Ariana

      I relate soooo much to like all of these! Thank you so much for putting these together, I feel understood 🙂

      • Anand Choudhury

        Thank you so much, Ariana! I deeply appreciate you for reading through the blog and posting such a lovely comment. You made my day!😊

    • I'm MyOwnImaginaryFriend

      omg, i was laughing this whole time because i can relate soooooo much to everything and didn’t realize that my eyes are flooding.. i just felt.. understood..

      • Anand Choudhury

        Wow! I am so happy to read this. Reading such lovely comments just makes my day. Thank you so much for taking the time to share your thoughts. I deeply appreciate you!

    • Balthasar

      Wow. I so can related to many of these. Made me laugh! Thank you.

    • Jimwilky

      Really interesting post!

    • Leila

      I needed the laugh .. oh my goodness, these were so relatable . Thank you !

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    • Verena

      Wow! This combination with symbolic in the meme and your deep (but short) description. This helps me to understand my personality and celebrate this with laughing. I feel your deep intention of truthiness. Thank you very much! You make the world to a better place, never stop creating.. 🙂

      • Anand Choudhury

        Thank you very much, Verena! Your words literally made my day. To be honest, I had become bitter about creating content for INFJs because I can see people reading through the posts, but no one cares to respond and comment, let alone subscribe to my newsletters. People fail to realize how much effort, pain, and perseverance it requires to gather information, find meaning, recognize patterns and create helpful content.

        I dedicated the last three years of my life completely understanding the INFJ personality type, risking everything else, and running into huge debts just to create a significant impact in the lives of INFJs. But who cares?

        Indeed there are few individuals like you who understand the intention behind the hard work and care to share the love.

        Thanks for the inspiration. Thanks for your comment, Verena! I truly mean it. You’re wonderful. More power to you.

        • Verena

          Dear Anand. I see you. And I feel disappointment. Disappointment about humanity fast life style (because of capitalism system). To live with that truth you made a challenge for you, to understand yourself, because the humanity didn’t understand you. Your creation gives other Infj the the feeling to be understand in this damn world. Please don’t be sad if other people can’t give you the appreciation you should get. They don’t want to see the improvement and your creation you made with your heart and mind. Never forget, your creation made, that all infj will never look again at our “bad” sights, because all of our pages are fantastical. We just must learn to handle whith them. And you are the best example. Namaste!

          • Anand Choudhury

            Dear Verena,
            This message literally brought tears to my eyes and touched my soul deeply. I feel so elated right now. I felt seen and understood. You spoke the real unadulterated truth not only about the world we are living in but also about the plight of INFJs all over the world and also about me precisely. Wow! I am totally speechless. Thanks for being my guiding light! Thanks for reminding me of my mission! You’re Godsend to me! Lots of love to you and God bless you. Namaste and Guten Tag!

    • Verena

      Have you heard about ENTP – INFJ relationship? (Sorry if you already wrote about it.. I will read all of your post with time) it is said, that they complete each other perfectly. I got to known an ENTP. And we both want to write about this magical connection. Why? Both types were always misunderstood in every human connection. So the ENTP can understand INFJ and INFJ can understand ENTP.

      So with this key to connect. To share understanding to other people. You showed me that deep work reach people to recognize that the light in yourself you must share to the world to connect. And this real energy is the propulsion for INFJ to make the world to a better place.

      • Anand Choudhury

        Yes Verena, I have heard about the magnetic ENTP-INFJ connection. I am sorry, I haven’t written it yet, but I am planning to write it soon. I’m really glad to know that you’re already in a magical relationship with an ENTP. It really makes me happy to come across stories where an INFJ is finally happy and fulfilled in their romantic relationship.

        ENTPs are also misunderstood to a great extent and INFJs complete them perfectly. Though there would be some areas of conflict in this relationship, but the relationship as a whole is highly rewarding and magical in the true sense. I would love to feature your love story in my forthcoming post about the ENTP-INFJ relationship. Would you please give me an opportunity to showcase your magical connection with the world? Please let me know. You can message me at anand@personalitymirror.com. I’m eagerly looking forward to it.

        And you’re absolutely right. We must share our truth with the world not only to connect ourselves with the world but also to bring light into other people’s lives with our authentic deep work and make the world a better place every single day. Thanks for sending me tons of Inspiration. You’re a truly amazing soul! More power to you!

    • Iretioluwa

      This is mind blowing! I resonate with these memes deeply. Great job. I would like to read the book you recommend. Thanks. Proudly INFJ.

    • Anand Choudhury

      Thank you so much for these amazing words! I highly appreciate that.

    • palegreenscent

      Staring at the grass while feeling far away from reality is what I remember the most about my childhood. I’ve been very confused about my identity for quite a while. Whenever I look back at my past, I feel like I wasn’t fully present, like I spent my life in a state that is somewhere between living and sleepwalking. Like a dream. Then adding it to my contradictory personality and the ability to be perceptive, it all became very confusing, I didn’t know how to describe myself, even to myself.
      Every single meme is so relatable I kept laughing throughout the post!! They brought back my memories………they really describe me….maybe I’m an INFJ……thank you for putting all these memes together with brief descriptions. This post really helped me…and also moved me.

    • mikaila

      What a good post, actually this is the best post about INFJ that i’ve ever read… Thank you sooo much for writing this

    • Jay

      Why was this was so (dang) realistic? I laughed and nearly cried inside… okay I’ll do that second thing later.

      Thank you for creating this, it was very fun to have someone who felt me

    • LIng

      Hey Anand!

      It’s been a while since I last stopped by this page. I think this post is fantastic and it deserves to be found by many more INFJs!

      Update it by adding 5 to 10 more memes. Along with your other post like the INFJ careers too – that one is high potential from my INFJ gut instinct and along with some rational analysis. 😉 That way, your content will keep ranking in the top position.

      In fact, you can find a meme about INFJ careers and interlink it to your INFJ jobs post!

      It would be amazing to see you make an impact on more INFJs! 🙂


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